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by: Gabrielle LaFrank

5 Common Myths About Cat Gender Debunked

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No one is immune to stereotypes and myths–not even our beloved feline friends. Those who haven’t had the pleasure of living with a cat can occasionally assume they’re all aloof, lazy, and filled to the brim with attitude. Sure, this can sometimes be true, but a little time spent with cats can show you that they’re just as diverse as the humans who raise them.

As it turns out, cat gender is still often the subject of myth. So we’re here to set the record straight. These myths about cat gender are some of the most common ones you may hear, but they’re no less fascinating or important when doing research before adopting a cat. Understanding the truths behind these myths may help you decide whether to adopt a male or female, and it can tell you what to expect if a rescue cat of either gender chooses you instead. Plus–who doesn’t love adding to their repertoire of feline fun facts?

Myth #1: Male cats are more affectionate toward humans than female cats.

One of the most prevalent myths about cat gender includes a major link between a cat’s gender and personality. Specifically, some people believe that male cats are more affectionate and friendly, especially toward humans, than their female counterparts. This is supposedly because of female cat’s motherly instincts, which makes them more likely to bond closely with other cats (especially their kittens) instead of with people.

While the logic behind this myth adds up, the truth is that a cat’s tendency to bond with their people has more to do with their personality than with their gender. The veterinarians behind The People’s Dispensary for Sick Animals (PDSA) explain that most cats are happiest when it’s just themselves and their humans, but that doesn’t necessarily mean they’re velcroed to their parent’s side 24/7. Cats used to human attention and handling at a young age may be likelier to enjoy cuddling and quality time with their parent as an adult cat, too. Even though some cat parents agree that their boy cats are sweet and loving while their females are more aloof, this is only a stereotype.

Myth #2: All orange cats are male, and all calico and tortoiseshell cats are female.

If you’ve ever loved a tortoiseshell cat or calico cat, you’ve likely heard about this common feline gender myth: that all torties and calicos are female! While this urban legend has an air of truth, you may be surprised to learn that it’s not entirely true. About 1 in every 3000 calico cats is a male!

  • Calico cat coat genetics:

    How does this work? We must go back to high school biology for a minute to fully understand. You’ll remember that all traits that make a person or animal unique are determined in their DNA, which comprises 23 pairs of chromosomes (where the genetic data is stored). One pair of these chromosomes is called the sex chromosomes, which determine a person or animal’s gender. Some traits, such as a cat’s coat color, are also carried from generation to generation on the sex chromosomes. More specifically, a cat’s coat color genetics is determined by their X chromosome(s).

Because female cats have XX chromosomes, they’ll receive one copy of coat color genes from each of their parents. When a female inherits one orange X and one black X, the result is a calico or tortoiseshell kitten! Very rarely, a developing kitten will inherit an extra sex chromosome, resulting in an XXY genetic code. This gives you a male calico cat! Because these males are genetically different, they are sterile and will be unable to reproduce.

  • Orange cat coat genetics:

    The opposite is also true with orange cats: the vast majority of them are male. This is because the trait for an orange coat is recessive, meaning it needs to be the only trait genetically present to be physically represented in the cat’s coat color. This happens more frequently for males because they only inherit one X chromosome (which determines coat color), whereas females would need to inherit the orange coat color from both parents. Remember, females have 2 X chromosomes!

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Myth #3: Male outdoor cats will wander far from home, while outdoor female cats stay nearby.

The thought of their cat wandering outside can stir up a mixture of reactions from cat parents, from nonchalance to sheer panic. While some kitties have been outdoor cats for as long as they’ve lived, other house cats are used to a cushy and clean indoor life. However, many people also believe male cats are likelier to wander far away from home. Why is this?

Testosterone can sometimes cause male cats to seek out mates by any means necessary–including pulling an escape act–but this has more to do with whether or not they have been neutered than with their gender itself. Many boy cats are perfectly content at home, especially after being fixed.

On the other end of the spectrum, female felines can also wander! Some females in heat will seek mates just like the boys do, but your girl cat may also disappear to a quiet, comfy place if she expects kittens. This is normal, but it could certainly make you panic until you locate your furry friend.

Myth #4: Only male cats spray and mark their territory.

Spraying is one of those testosterone-driven feline behaviors that can lead cat parents to consult with a trainer or veterinarian. Not only is it a pain to clean up after a hormonal feline, but it can also leave your home smelling less than ideal. But did you know this territorial behavior isn’t exclusive to boy cats?

It’s true! Although tom cats (AKA non-neutered male cats) are most likely to mark their territory by spraying, any cat may spray. In fact, VCA Animal Hospitals estimates that about 10% of neutered male cats and 5% of spayed females continue to mark their territory with urine. This may also be more common in multi-cat households, but gender is not the only factor in the likelihood of this behavior.

Myth #5: Male cats are much more likely to fight each other than females.

Hormones are a tricky thing. These chemicals in the body are responsible for several physical and mental changes, including mood. Rises in testosterone can often cause male cats to escalate their competition into downright aggression, but it’s not the only reason why cats may butt heads.

Cats often fight over territory, both in the home and outdoors. This happens when an established cat feels threatened by another cat’s presence, whether it’s a new kitten in the house or a feral cat that has wandered into town. Cats attempt to claim their territory by leaving their scent behind, but sometimes, marking via urination or rubbing the scent glands isn’t enough. Few cats truly are acting out of aggression, but pet cats may end up fighting when play goes a little too far.

The feline experts at PDSA found that “Female cats will stand up for themselves just as much as males,” regardless of whether or not they’ve been fixed. Your cat’s feelings toward other felines in general are a better indicator of how they’ll react in a specific situation, as cats who have grown up around other cats may be more tolerant of other four-legged friends. If you’re unsure how your furry friend feels, pay attention to your cat’s body language and sounds. A crouched, tense cat is likely feeling stressed, while a chatty and relaxed cat is ready to make a new friend.

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Does it matter? Choosing the right cat gender for you

Whether or not you have your heart set on a girl or boy cat, it’s always a good idea to do your research before committing. As we mentioned, an individual kitty’s personality matters so much more than their gender, but it’s smart to be prepared for the differences in health and care between male and female cats. The good news is that your day-to-day life will look roughly the same either way, especially when you get your cat spayed or neutered.

A cat’s gender is such a small piece of who they are, but it’s both important and fascinating to understand a few key differences and myths about cat gender. These misconceptions are more widely believed than you may think! To learn even more interesting fun facts about our beloved feline companions, make sure to stay up-to-date with Small Talk’s latest articles, interviews, and other tasty tidbits.

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